Friday, 3 April 2009

Learning Process and formation of personality

Personality is very small word which describes all of characteristics, our insights and outs. Now from my childhood to my stage of life I have experienced variety of learning process and guidance. Now from my point of view I think we need guidance to improve or build up character, our way of thinking and improve our outlooks. But this learning process should not oppose any of these aspects. I have faced a lot of learning process and I have found very few processes supporting these aspects. Most of the time, the learning process was quite boring. It only had the view of obtaining the first place, but never intended us to learning for our satisfaction. As a child my family was my primary guidance, then my school mates and my teachers and so on. I had learnt my spiritual belief, obedience from my family. I learnt honesty, truthfulness, and other qualities from my parents and my sister. I had learnt much desirable quality from my family, but I remained in darkness about the bad impacts of human behavior. l learnt those bad impacts from my mates. They also helped me avoiding those acts. I was taught discipline, punctuality, regularity and other qualities in my school. Yes I can say that my school guided me a lot but it also changed my response towards environment. Gradually I began to feel that I almost lost my curiosity in other things. I figured out that life which was very interesting for me in my childhood, now becoming almost boring and meaningless.
Most of the time my learning process began to form a boring process; for which I lost my attraction towards my study. This what happens with almost every students in our country. So for me learning process is very important for shaping ourselves. It builds our characters, motivates our formation of personality. Learning process is really a very effective method for building up own character.

Personality is the total sum of an individual's psycho-physical aspects. It depends on many things, such as our environment, our process of learning, our views and ideas etc. As it mostly depends on our environment, all of us have different personalities. Mostly some of us may have some common characteristics, but it still shows our individualities as a person. As I was brought up in a nuclear family, I faced panic in loneliness. I faced lot of difficulties in making friends and thus I grew up as an introvert. Moreover my parents had very conservative outlook which made me more recluse. My school and college made me much instructive only about my textbook. My family, my mates, my educational institutions shaped up my character. Now I am a student of university and this is helping me to explore myself. Thus personality is molding with these environments and learning processes.

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